What are like minds?
People who learn, think and feel in a similar way.
How do our gifted children find like minds?
- Interest groups (eg scouts etc, sports teams, clubs, volunteer groups, cultural /religious groups, music groups, drama groups etc) - follow your child's interests or introduce them to new ideas - they might just find something they love!
- Giving them opportunities to work with both age peers and intellectual peers (schools can group students in various ways)
- When parents find like-minded friends they can often have like-minded children - don't overlook the importance of these casual catch-ups for both children and parents.
- Online groups - for older children / teens online chat groups can be useful if they are all respectful of each other's thoughts and feelings
Why is finding like minds important?
We know that often our gifted students can feel different as they often learn, think and feel differently to many of their age peers. It's important on a basic psychological level to feel that you belong and are accepted (see Maslow's hierarchy of needs, below). So finding like minds helps support this emotional and social need.
Once that need is met it is then possible for tamariki to work towards 'self-actualisation' - being the best they can be, being creative and working towards heir potential. Like minds can help support challenge as children bounce ideas off each other or encourage each other to learn more if they have similar interests or learning ethos.
A little of the research backing up the importance of time with like minds
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